On a bad day, the bus inched along in traffic as I repeatedly refreshed Google Maps, only to find at each click that the expected arrival time had been pushed back. During those moments, my misery practically leaked out of me, until I learned a new trick. Calm down, I now tell myself; soon enough, this ride will never have happened. For two years, I rode the Chinatown bus to Boston and back at least once a month. But ask me to recall the details of almost any ride, and my mind has nothing to offer.
All the small tortures that wound me up so exquisitely, the annoyances that I know must have happened, were erased almost completely even a couple of weeks later. Gone, the same way most days of our childhoods are gone—we know that they happened, but they are now out of reach. Always I have prided myself on my memory and its ability to catalogue everything.
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It was important to remember, because looking back was how I derived pleasure. As my mother loses the ability to remember, I find myself playing with my own memory: Rather than considering it simply a recording tool to store and retrieve data from the computer of my mind, now I will myself to erase or to amplify. Instead of merely saving moments to revisit and observe later, I try to force something, and that something is experience itself. In the first trial, volunteers held their hand under for sixty seconds. In the second trial, they had their hand under for ninety seconds, but for the last thirty seconds, the icy water was warmed by a single degree.
Then it was time to choose which trial they wanted to repeat. The first trial should be preferable, because your hand is in pain for thirty fewer seconds. The remembering self compresses, highlights the peaks and valleys. The remembering self disproportionately cares about how an experience ended, and it tells you that at least the second trial provided a small measure of relief. And so 70 percent of participants chose to repeat the second trial, choosing to put their hand in pain for longer because things got a little bit better at the end.
He specializes in prose poetry, which you can see here. Isn't it wonderful? I really like how each paragraph-stanza has a different comparison to view memory and distance. In the first stanza, you can see that it is a scientific approach. The second utilizes something complex and abstract from the mind, which is the human memory. The last stanza then takes it beyond further than memory. It questions and challenges us what is fact and fiction, real and not real when it comes to distance and memory.
Imagination and reality also come into play as well. Interestingly, the title itself holds very parallel views as well. If a certain amount of years has passed, our memory somewhat crumbles a bit, and we forget certain details of a certain event or even what happened last year. For distance, our eyes are not fit to see hundreds of miles away like a bird would. Everything is vague or appears small. There's a philosophical element to this prose poem as well.
Should we trust with our eyes? What about our minds?
I feel that this poem leaves us pondering how we see life at times--narrow perspective so that we miss the bigger picture. Also, I feel that this poem hints at the idea that we don't know everything for our senses are not always correct--that we perceive things differently from others. Or maybe our senses can deceive us at times.
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In what ways can we get memory and distance closer to us? Through "paper and ink" as suggested? I find some truth in that as paper and ink is one of the oldest form of communication that brings relationships closer to the person and that it makes memories come alive for us when we revisit such memories on paper. What do you think of this poem? Please feel free to discuss and share! Also, come New Year's, please be on the lookout for a writing prompt! One can see it clearly in the music world. Pop singers and movie stars became international if not global figures before athletes and sports teams.
My novel deals with the era in which new satellite broadcasting technologies began to turn sportsmen and the focus was definitely on men into entertainers and then into global icons. People must have found it challenging, though, making Ali their own in very different political situations. He unsettled ideas about race, but his provocations were not straightforward. Something was always catching my eye. What appears there is totally random, which may be part of its appeal: often the detail is of the kind you would look past if you were paging through a newspaper, but as an isolated fragment it seems full of meaning.
Among other things, it was an unobtrusive way of creating a sketchy timeline to help the reader navigate the chapters. When the book was finished, and I was trying to identify the sources of the quotations systematically, the reverse side of the cuttings came in very useful. Often I could figure out which newspaper I was dealing with by the typography or the formatting of datelines and so on. Regular features like radio schedules or cartoon strips also helped to identify sources.
How do you battle this darkness in your own work—or do you embrace it? I like to quote Graham Greene on the subject: he said something to the effect that forgetting is essential to writing fiction. Without the freedom that a faulty, inventive memory brings, novelists would all be social historians. He wants him to be an historian too. But it appears that Branko cannot follow this advice. The writer accustomed to recasting personal experience as fiction might well find a wall of inventions rising up between him and the past. Writing reveals and conceals the past at the same time.
Are you, for example, someone who disconnects the internet while you write? Or do you whirl happily in the superabundance?
But most of the time I find the excess appealing only as a distraction. Could you tell us a little about how this collaboration came about, and whether there are any plans to bring the production to Joburg? She approached me to say she was interested in adapting one of my texts. The production will travel to Paris in the next few weeks, but there are no plans to bring it to Joburg.
The story will be published early next year. Did you receive any resistance from your editors or publisher on this?
Negotiating Distance: researching memory, doing memory
I wanted a more subtle version of this in the book. We tried many different options, including a smaller point size in the same typeface, before settling on a solution. I think this level of involvement in the design is unusual with a trade paperback. Smaller presses doing specialised kinds of books often work more closely with their authors. I think most writers are happy to leave these decisions to the publisher. What would your opinion be on that?
Distance and Memory
Editors need time to make a difference, and that costs money, which publishers are often short of. Writers also have to trust editors and take their advice, in the interests of arriving together at a better version of the book. I get the feeling that strong editing is not always welcomed or appreciated.