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I had all the cash I needed to buy it, but when I told my parents I wanted them to drive me to the store, they told me no. I was frustrated. It was my money and I wanted to spend it right then. Instead, they made me wait a week and if I still wanted the Sega, then they would take me to the store and let me buy it. After a week, I still ended up buying the Sega Genesis, but I have used this test for a lot of bigger purchases in my life.
This has saved me from many impulse purchases. The incredible work ethic of my mom, who was widowed when I was only 2. She went to work as a school secretary when it was still rather unusual for women to be working outside the home late 60s. Also, she loved and took immense pride in her work and she worked until the day she died.
Both my mom and my dad, when he was alive, revered education, and my mom as well as my extended family were always telling me and my cousins to learn everything we could, whether it was formal or informal, wherever we could. They were huge readers and regular trips to the library were common during my childhood and my mom never hesitated to buy me a book if I asked. Cooking, from my favorite aunt, whom my mom and I lived with after my dad died. Everything I know about cooking I learned from her. She always experimented and was very adventurous with her recipes and that influenced me to be the adventurous cook and diner that I am.
The value of money and budgeting. When I was interested in art, I got plenty of art supplies and books and was encouraged to draw for school projects and contests. When I expressed a liking for music, I got piano lessons and a piano that came from a neighbor at very little cost. My mom enjoyed writing, and I absorbed that interest as well. Those three things form the basis of my life now as a graphic designer, writer and amateur musician. The importance of family, not only in the sense that they would be there for me always, but a deep and fascinating sense of history for my and their ancestors, the kinds of people they were, the countries they came from and the experiences they had.
A profound spirituality. My parents and extended family were not only very devout, but they tried as best they could to live their faith daily. The best thing my parents taught me was regarding money. But money will buy you things and experiences that you can enjoy or make like easier for you. My childhood was full of chaos and abuse. We lived in upstate NY and on Sundays my dad used to love to take long drives in rural places — over hills and through forests.
My brother, sister and I would pile into the car with him whenever he announced a drive; we loved it! Now that we are back on land, we take almost daily, evening walks at oceans edge at sunset, and I feel the same. The most valuable skill I learned from my mom , was the value of creating and maintaining a network, though she never called it that, they were just her friends.
In the course of her life, she cultivated a wide circle of friends all over the world that she could visit, get advice from, and just generally have as a resource. She kept it up by never forgetting a birthday particularly of their kids , a thank you note, or an opportunity for a thoughtful gesture.. My upbringing was pretty humble, but my access was huge thanks to mom. My tenacity toward this pales in comparison to hers, but I definitely make an effort to keep up my positive relationships and contacts. What a great question, and one I have pondered many times over the last years, especially since becoming a mother myself.
From both my parents I inherited a deep love for learning pretty much everything and anything, and a fascination for travelling and foreign cultures. From my mother I learnt to love unconditionally, to nurture and support those that I love. She taught me by example to be generous, honest and kind with everyone, to love foreign languages, to cook, to style. He taught me to question everything, to read with a critical eye, to detect patterns especially historical patterns in world history, and how to foresee what was to come based on what had already happened , the true meaning of solidarity and to fight against injustice.
From him I also learnt how NOT to manage money lol. I am who I am because of them. My parents mismanaged money and basically left me to raise my brother and sister while they managed their businesses in another town an hour away at night, when I was I learned so much from them and the lessons I learned were priceless. I learned to save money and not to s, not to be jealous of others or envious of others hard work and accomplishments.
We have dinner every night together, they are involved in sports, we go to church, and are involved in the community. I try and teach them resilience and persistence in whatever they want to do. I want them to enjoy life and the freedom of living and loving their family and friends. So I basically try and better myself and make things positive for those around me and try and be encouraging.
My parents taught me that by being the exact opposite of it.
Thanks Ramit for all you do. Your parents raised you well. I have a difficult relationship with both of my parents. After the divorce she stopped treating us as children, despite our young age, so I was much more prepared for uni than most of my peers! Now I am trying to make it up to him. I learned to always question things. That is you were smart enough, you could make your own rules. They taught me to investigate things further, rather than blindly believing. They taught me to seek out information when I was interested and that there was always a way to learn how to do anything that I wanted to.
This built a curiosity and boldness along with the natural entrepreneurial spirit that comes with being Persian that has led me to achieve very good things in life and helped me to become and interesting and, more importantly, interested adult. My mom went back to school twice in her 40s in an attempt to find what truly lit her fire and is now so happy with her career as a massage therapist.
When I decided to pursue acupuncture during my last year of studying Econ at Rutgers, she was my inspiration to go for it and never look back. My father and I have had a strained relationship for the majority of my life, but he taught me very important lessons when I was young through his own actions. In the early 90s, he helped over 20 friends get out of Romania back when it was still a communist country.
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I learned from my parents to always do the right thing, even if no one is looking. My parents made sure that we turned it in and the person who lost it was very grateful since that was his grocery money. My parents divorced and separated by the time I was one years old. They biggest thing they taught me was by example: You can choose to be a victim of your circumstances my father , or choose to be a survivor and not let that hold you back my mother.
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As a result, my mother was able to teach me much more. I am grateful to have an open minded mother that allowed me to pursue whatever dreams that I wanted for myself without a no response. Dreams are really important in my family and my mother in particular is always there to say anything is possible so long as you have worked for it. Money is something that was almost always scarce in the household and because of that I have decided to make a conscious decision of not consuming and overindulging myself with material possessions, goods and services that are not necessarily essential to have.
I learned from my father that your word counts more than anything, and you have to honor commitments no matter what. I thought I was smart or lucky for a while, but it was much later that I realized the story behind the scenes of my grades. My single-mom opened her finances to me early in life.
This allowed me to realize how much life cost and helped me, from a young age, look at opportunity cost without knowing the term. We were also communal in our finances — I provided my newspaper delivery money and other monies from businesses I ran from a young age. I have a very high-level view of community and family finances that stretches beyond my direct family unit and to ally friends and extended family. The one bit of advice my father gave me that really shaped who I am today was delivered in two separate forms: 1. Always punch above your weight.
In other words, put yourself into situations where you need to get better than you are if you want to survive. My parents immigrated to the US from the Philippines; they gave up everything they knew to make a better life for me and my sisters. So I take care to listen when he does speak. I almost missed the defining lesson during one of our talks. What I can give you is our family name. It has a good history. I cannot tarnish it.
Instead, think of how you can be of service to someone and how you can make your clients happy. I use that phrase myself when kids I teach try the same plea to me. He also followed his own standards. So, integrity to the values you hold and want your children to follow was something my dad taught me. I am grateful that he did. The most important thing I learned from my parents was the skill of problem-solving. They both excelled at taking a problem, breaking it down, attacking it and solving it.
They were also amazing when it came to trying anything once — they had no fear. He is not built like this at all and we struggle whenever he has to tackle something new. I hope to pass this attitude on to my child who is 4 years old and loves to help me in building projects. He was teaching me to be independent and to count on myself. He also exercised with us. My dad did a fantastic job of teaching his daughters that they needed to be physically healthy and not dependent on others to make their own way. It definitely kept me on the straight and narrow. I am lucky to have great parents from whom I have learned a lot of valuable lessons from watching there examples, honesty, giving, patience, to name a few, but the one I want to share is what my mom used to say to me when I was a kid on summer break.
You could mow the lawn, wash the dishes, scrub the toilet, …. If so, I begin to analyze why. What are the others getting from this that I should be. If everyone is falling asleep I begin to analyze the message, the delivery, the setting, etc. My aunt the excellent cook was also chronically ill most of her adult life and was in and out of hospitals frequently. Laugh 5 times a day. Spend less than you make. Make sure they know you were here. Their love for each other taught me to love and respect my spouse and for 37 years I have done my best. Her wise words taught us to use words carefully and choose wisely what you say.
My father was the quieter one and he used more actions that words to express his love. He always hugged us, patted us on the back, gave us a wink, held our hand, or would bring me a small surprise home, etc. That our lives are usually determined by how we react and respond during time of adversity and bad times are going to happen.
The greatest test is to overcome trials and tribulation and search to learn from those adverse experiences and grow. We worked to develop our family and individual lives with enhancing each of these traits toward those within our family and each and every other person in the world. Give of yourself and time freely to your community and our world. Our gifts are needed and it will help to make this world a better place for all.
I always excelled at school when, especially when I was younger. I always came home and immediately finished all of my homework before doing anything else. My mom flat out refused. In fact, after an undergraduate degree in Philosophy, she was accepted full-ride to grad school, but she realized that Philosophy was not practical, so on a whim without any preparation, she took the LSAT, passed, and went to Law School.
She wanted me to remain humble and hardworking for as long as possible…. My dad is basically the opposite person from my mother not surprising that they got divorced when I was really young. He connects people and offers to help everyone. My dad also follows his passions sometimes, blindly. When I was young, I loved to draw. My dad saw that talent in me and always encouraged me to pursue art. My mom put me in dance and performing arts she was on drill team in high school , and I got really into that.
I have a really vivid memory of being pulled out of school early in the morning when I was in 1st grade. My dad had decided we were going to Sacramento to go to the zoo. I had a visceral reaction to this you might call it an anxiety attack. This was a school day!
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He calmed me down and I think we called my mom just to make sure it was okay. What a weirdo. So would you trust Experts? She went from housekeeper to nurse not without struggle. Then 4 years later she had a baby at age 47!! From my dad I learned to love expressively and explosively, and that learning is a life-long pursuit that is at the core of a happy existence.
In many words: My grandfather has in his time developed 2 very powerful and effective communities. First, my family. I have my grandfather to thank for that. The second community that my grandfather has had a hand in building is the town he lives in. Many towns and cities define themselves by something unique within them.
Major companies, factory, main street, churches, school, libraries etc. For the town of Warwick, my grandfather has given not only money but years of his life towards developing each one of those things. His name is on a few buildings next to or even above the people that have donated money towards them. So to tell you what I learned from him is simply this: develop a community that can sustain itself and you can be proud of.
The best thing I ever learned came from my Aunt Bon, who acted as a second mother. She approached life with a delightful blend of eastern and western philosophies. I can still hear her voice telling me to be true to myself, with personal integrity, and that there is a flip side to everything.
Wisely, she would look at me and ask that I think through every decision because of the consequences of that very action. Then with a slight smile add that only in Vegas does one get a double headed coin. My parents encouraged me to try anything I wanted to. They supported that choice.
Anything you do, do it properly. Now, I try and not give people sub-standard work. Maintain friendships. The majority of my friends I met at 11 years old and the others I met in my first job. Travel often! They never let the opportunity to take a road trip pass, or to take a trip overseas.
What i have learned from my parents is to never stop believeing in your dreams, never stop giving up on them because the journey was cloudy and fill with disbeliefs. To always remain true to yourself. My parents shared their love of music, art, and culture with me. Throughout my life I have been a regular and enthusiastic attendee and participant in all sorts of cultural activities.
It would have been hard to gain this appreciation on my own without them pointing me on this path. First do no harm. My goal is to integrate the principle of Ahimsa into values based business practices. Out of all of the lessons they taught me growing up, either through repetition or insight, one stood out above all of the others: The value of delayed gratification. There is not a single are of my life that has not benefited from keeping this principle in mind Education, Business, Relationships, Investing. My mom never went to school. My dad only went uptill 4th grade.
I learned all basic survival skills of life from my mom. Nowadays youngsters are not interested in cooking, nutrition. I never realized how important it was for the whole family to have this daily ritual until I got married. Both my parents took night classes while I was growing up, and my mother worked some nights. I think those are hitting the hardest right now — I can easily think of more. Such a great idea! There is always enough room and food for everybody and he who speaks loudest, will be heard ; 2.
Get outdoors and breathe some fresh air — it clears your mind and makes you happy. Do this with the ones you love; 4. Family is everything Apply this to your community ; 5. Give wholeheartedly; 6. The German genes run strong in my family. As a teenager and young adult, this was highly irritating for me and felt really overbearing. But I now appreciate the original education I received in making goals, making a detailed plan, putting time on the calendar to get it done, and always showing up to get the work done.
Ramit, thank you for sharing and posing this question! You sliced down to the most important core of relationships — love and caring. Not the kooky, family crazy stuff that we can all joke or complain about, but the things that bind us together. So on that note, my mom is a mixture of traditional and nontraditional. My husband calls her a throwback, but I am not so sure about that.
She was raised by a nontraditional Basque father and red-headed mother. Granddad could run heavy equipment, work mining operations, garden and he taught my grandmother how to cook she was lady! He was hurt several times, but always found ways to contribute which meant teaching himself how to cook and braid rugs to keep from getting bored. He passed his respect of women on to my mom and uncles one uncle runs a construction business and his best backhoe operators are his granddaughters.
Grandma drove taxi at night to support them when he was seriously hurt. She loved to sell things. She sold Tupperware and won two trips to Orlando, then she sold Ford cars the only woman in the dealership and was a salesperson at Sears. And my dad, well at 80, he is still going strong. He has to be to live with a strong woman. My parents and grandparents taught us to make our own decisions, to love work and that family matters above all else. If someone needs help, my parents are the first ones to step in! This has been invaluable to me along with their mantra of never being afraid to try, and to ask.
Then you shake it off, learn from it and move on and up. Thanks Mom and Dad. I am a son of single mother with four brothers. My mother made sure I acted according to proper manners and etiquette. So many people are ignorant to the fact of their own ignorance. It affects people in a profoundly negative manner, that only society suffers. From my dad who is a amazing negotiator and self made success in real estate: 1. Do not be afraid to walk away, even multiple times.
More often than not they will follow you and offer you a better deal. Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing at all, i. Be nice to the front desk at hotels. If they like you they are more likely to give you a free upgrade if they have it. Make it work with what you have. They got the loan. This is a little harder to explain, but what ever idea I ever had she would always encourage me to put it on paper — make a list, draw a picture, and then make it real.
The combination is amazing. He also taught each of us to have really big expectations for our lives; we grew up with an understanding that we really could change the world if we worked hard. This also had the simultaneous effect of allowing all three kids to believe that their ideas were valuable and worth pursuing. On the other hang, my mother taught us to think outside the box. Even for small projects we were encouraged to think about them creatively — she challenged us and showed us! Artists have an amazing way of looking at the world and interpreting it for the better, and I think that has translated into how us kids look at our business endeavors.
Lastly, as a natural hostess and philanthropist, she also taught us the value of putting others first, and the importance of giving back to the world in ways that are lasting. In the end, the effect was amazing on all three kids. We are constantly curious about the world, and we all believe that we have tools to conquer big challenges — to be disruptive towards change.
We investigate how others are looking at the same issue and then spend sometime thinking about how we can take it to the next level — make it better, make it bolder, make it more efficient or exciting. We are all willing to work hard to make change, and importantly, not only are we not afraid to tackle complicated issues — we seek them out and strive to be creative on how to fix them. Importantly, this also translated into a strong sense of self-worth, which I believe is instrumental to any person who wants to be successful in the marketplace.
Also, to ASK for what I need. The importance of independence. My parents divorced when I was Watching my mom pull her life back together and find a career was life changing for me. It has been good for me as an individual and healthy for our marriage. Both of my parents are givers by nature, and they are both very hardworking people with a lot of self discipline.
Somehow , my ultimate belief of the safe world I got from them seems to save me- eventually! God bless them. When making a decision, clear out all emotions. Never seek vengeance—it will return karmically to hurt you or the ones you love. When making a decision, be strenuously objective. Do your research—lots of it. Invest in professional advice. From my darling mum, I have learnt that you can achieve anything if you set your mind to it, after having 4 kids, she went back to school to become a teacher, then she took an interior design course and designed our house. I love my mother dearly, although arguments are more frequent than might be considered ideal.
From her I have learned things which will stay with me forever:. The person that you want to punch squarely in the nose for their constant harassment might provide you with incredible opportunities a few years down the line. How am I meant to afford the best one available? Buy for long-term use, not short-term satisfaction. If the tasks set are small, she told me to sit my butt down and do them immediately before I could go and watch Cartoon Network on the TV or whatever screen my pre-teen self was usually glued to.
Even if they were long assignments that could be worked on over the month, Mum advised me to start straight away, so that I could progress consistently. Applying this tactic to everything I do has enabled me to totally avoid stress of any kind. It feels better than the weight of guilt. I have a great relationship with my father, too, but my mother was the one who instilled these invaluable traits in me. From my Mum I learned that to achieve most things in life, you have to be determined and work hard.
She brought-up my sister and I on her own, for 10 years. During this time she had 7 part-time jobs at 1 point, and she worked so hard that she managed to buy a detached house in a nice neighbourhood. She always welcomed our friends home and would cook for us all even with many people sleeping on all the available floor space. She is certainly a generous soul.
A real carer for people. From my Step-Father, always be honest and truthful. Be there for your family. I had struggled for years and tried the patch, nicotine gum, etc. I would make it a few days and give in. My Dad had quit years before when my 5 year old sister climbed in his lap and asked him why he did it.
Hope this might help if any of your readers are struggling with an addiction. My parents were both shy, sensitive introverts. They made huge contributions in the fields of science engineering and academia. I learned from them that the loudest person is not always the one most worthy of my attention. Hard work matters more than talent and intelligence.
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Value the people who at least try to improve, even if they hit their peak at average. When you can, spend extravagantly on the things you love, like travel or your home. Education was always the highest priority. Sometimes the greatest joys are found in doing things on your own at home. I knew when I was in the 3rd grade that I was going to college and the importance of education. It was drilled into my brother, sister and I. They were fun and loved to party from time to time so I ended up at a party school while graduating first in my class in my major But they taught us the importance of consistent hard work and we saw this of parents daily.
My dad never got sick and missed only one day of work that I can remember. He swore by his daily vitamin C tablet. We all work very hard because of this example. I saw my mom go back to school at the age of 35 to become an educator. She loved her new job, though she enjoyed her job as an RN as well, and knew she was making a difference in the lives of children who needed her. I learned the importance of serving those less fortunate and being passionate about the work you do.
A couple things I learned from them. Thanks for this great thread, Ramit. So just do something that makes a lot of money. If you need to criticize someone or are mad at someone for something, make sure they understand that you are criticizing them or are mad at them for a specific reason. Then, even though they were bad at this next step, I learned that if the issue is addressed, you let it go and it does not need to be addressed again.
I learned from my father to always be inquisitive and curious about the things around me. It really gave me an appreciate later on for the importance of understanding things and using intellect. She taught me compassion, respect, and helping your fellow man, but she also taught me how everybody is not your friend, people will take advantage of your kindness, and you have to look out for yourself as well.
The best thing I learned from my mom was to be kind and to pay attention to animals and nature-they both deserve our respect and we should be good stewards of them. From my dad, the love of words and to choose them thoughtfully. To always treasure resourcefulness — in myself and in others.
Celebrate going the extra mile. To always give yourself time to succeed by starting early, and finishing strong. My mother taught me empathy — to be aware not wary of their motivations. She also taught me to be mindful of how you treat others, by freely giving without expecting return. People will reciprocate when they can, and when you least expect it. She had a great talent for getting people to open up and she made many, many strangers happy by smiling and asking them how they were, or about something they were doing or buying or wearing.
My parents who are full of good advice on every other topic met while hitchhiking, and got married three months later. My mom would always insist that getting married quickly was the only way to find a good partner. I thought my parents had just taken a stupid risk and got lucky that it worked out. For a decade I was in and out of long-term relationships with men that were great, but I could never quite make the commitment.
At 31, I got set up on a blind date, and within several weeks, we were ready to move in together and plan our wedding. We are still that sickening couple that exudes happiness. Also my parents taught me to never order drinks or desert at a restaurant, and that appetizers are only acceptable if it is your entire meal. From my mom a never follow a cookbook recipe blindly — ask yourself does this recipe makesense- if it does not then read a few more and put things together. Now when I think of this advice I use it in many other areas of my life-it helps me problem solve.
Everyone makes mistakes and then next time you will know better. While we seek perfection in others we need to ask ourselves what are we doing to better ourselves. From my dad a When you have a fear just remember that my parents came to this country with 8 dollars in their wallet. We are better off today than we were back then- with this knowledge we can always go forward.
Every action and thought is logical within the framework that gave rise to it. Western norms are not the perfect standard to measure things by. This one has a dark side of letting myself off the hook too early but is still more than worth knowing. How has this changed my life? Politically correct multi-culturalism is my default mode of being. I can see the good and bad in many different lifestyles and most people, but I rarely make value judgements on those differences. Whenever someone had was sick, had a surgery, or a death in their family, my mother would make tons of food and take it to their place… It feels good to give.
They taught us from a young age to always be honest and tell the truth. This included everything from doing dishes, dusting, vacuuming, and other household chores to music and school work. Extra tough on the school work. Always expecting tons of studying and excellent grades. My dad taught me how to always be there for friends and family — and how to build things. My mom helped me to be stylish.
And my grandmother taught me to garden, sew and make pie crust … they are all gone now, but I carry them with me …. To save money regularly. My parents would give me a regular amount of money every week, and I would have to manually record it down, and keep track of how much I had saved over time. When a special occasion came, I was allowed to use the money I had saved to purchase something I wanted, and I would also have to do the manual recording and accounting of what I would spend.
They also taught me to be nice to everyone, take care of others, and be giving. They treated everyone the same. From my mom I got the deep-seated assurance that I was loved and that the universe was a good and kind place. Looking back, the best thing I learned from my parents was about hard work. My Dad always had at least 2 jobs and a side business the entire time I grew up.
It was just normal to work days a week in my house. No one in my cohort understands why I do it or how, even…lol! That a woman should be independent — my parents did not have shared finances and my mom managed her business by herself — and that the only limits to your potential are the ones you put on yourself. I learned the priceless lesson of working for anything I wanted.
I really wanted a car when I turned 16 so my dad said to get a job. The highest paying job was detassling corn…in the corn fields… In the hot summer Iowa sun. As a pale short girl, I had to wear a huge hat with long sleeves, not fun. To set a goal and actually achieve it is something I will always be grateful for. Hello Ramit. The one thing I learned from my parent, my father, was the value of hard work. My father worked three jobs, with little sleep, I might add, to put both my brother and I through private school and college.
I always admired my dad for the things he did to keep my brother and I clothed, fed and educated. The amazing thing was, he still always found time to spend with my brother and I whether it was helping us with schoolwork or taking trips to spend quality time with us. I have never forgotten the values he instilled in me and the work ethic he provided me with to strive for success. Thanks for sharing this, Ramit, great post topic. The best thing I learned from my parents is how to achieve your goals within given resources through proper planing and saving and hard work. I learned from my parents: The value of perseverance to create something from zero.
The value and the power of working together, and be real partners to build a goal. The power of sharing, be givers and be generous From my mother I specially learned through her example the gift of being woman and the magic of being tender, generous and nurture others in many ways with kindness From my father that Actions speak louder than words It has changed me to let me flow, be grateful, want more, not be attached to anything or anyone, and trust in the process of life. Do whatever it takes to resolve the situation, and THEN fall apart if you need to.
If either one of us kids messed up, she would circle the wagons, and get the situation handled. If she felt like we needed to be lectured or punished, she would do that AFTER the thing was resolved. I was shocked when I became an adult and found that some people fall apart in the face of a crisis, instead of afterwards. Mom did good. I always say that my mother gave us roots and my father gave us wings. While one worked tirelessly to instil values of hardwork, the other taught us the ingenuity needed to overcome roadblocks that would most definitely overwhelm us.
Here are some of my best learnings from my parents. I cannot express how crucial this has been in my life. That was my conversion moment because it echoed a core belief. I come from a family of academics so being enamored by new fascinating subjects is second nature. Researching, practicing, ideating are all great — but at some point I have to be willing to bet on my ideas and take the plunge. I was somewhere among the top few — never a straight acer — always an oddball.
What mattered was what were we doing with what we learnt — not how great grades we made while learning it. Isolated for being brown in Europe, bullied for being a European-born in India.
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You can tell I often stay in the presidential suite in Victim-ville. Being an oddball helped me cultivate ingenuity, open unknown paths, create eclectic bonds — all of which have been far more fulfilling than living a formula. Besides, after being rejected so much — it stops making a difference. Networking gurus talk about connecting with people who are more powerful than you. But there are two other valuable insights that also need attention.
Over the years I watched my parents being very respectful, appreciative, kind towards all the people who made their lives easier. And I applied that to my own career. Sure, some people took advantage of the compassion. But I was also able to deliver projects with ridiculously difficult timelines. Like going from idea to artwork to printing , brochures and getting them delivered to the other end of the world in 60 hours flat, or getting a national daily to push its printing deadline by 3 hours to accommodate my brand campaign, or getting a mega website up in 7 days flat — things like those happened because I was taught the importance of learning the small jobs, and networking with the people behind those jobs — not just the big names.
One of the most powerful lessons my parents taught me at a young age was the concept of compound interest. Not only was it a lesson in financial awareness it was also a lesson in understanding the power of NOW. They taught me to take advantage of my youth and that one day my future self would be thankful. Perfect example: my parents convinced me to sell my goldmine of beanie babies when I was 8 years old. I think the reason their lesson was most effective is because they treated me like a future-adult instead of a clueless child. They empowered me to think about my actions, and to see my youth as an advantage rather than a disadvantage.
Most important of all to treasure loved ones, honour parents even after their death and always remember that as their child , you carry their legacy and make them always proud of you through your words, action and deeds. Be humble always. By the time I graduated high school they had provided a temporary home for my cousin and later my cousin her two kids and her boyfriend , my aunt and uncle and their two kids, a couple of foster children, two neighborhood boys one of which eventually became my big brother , another cousin, a different uncle and a family of 7 from our old neighborhood.
Those are just the people that lived with them. There were countless other people that were helped in other ways. Not to mention numerous stray cats, dogs and turtles that found homes with them as well as a number of injured birds that were nursed back to health and released into the wild. For most of my life, I mainly looked up to my mom for this.
She was the one that had the passion for helping. She was the one that always led the charge. He got up every day and still does , heads into work and gets the job done. On a side note, my dad also taught me that text books are for pleasure reading. Im very grateful for my parents, i learnt alot from my mom in particular, she is great woman, All i know today was induced to me by her, she thought me everything i need in life, kindness, smart, keeping evirons and myself clean, how to address public and important personels, ETC, if i begin to mention all, this page will full and it still remaining, i living happilly today because of mom, since my tender age im living positivelly without fears.
She is a great woman. My granma who was my major parental figure when growing up taught me two things which probably shaped me more than anything. Always be a gentlemen, class is about delicacy in action not money, power or authority. She taught me to love and respect truth. THE truth. She was so specific about that. I miss them both so much now. They never really got to see me as a grown up. Thanks for this question. So be skeptical, but learn to listen.
Make sure it makes sense to you first. My father was a frugal type, but when it comes to the foods we are very abundant! He told us that we should be humble always, even if how far we have reached. Family is the first thing first before anyone else.
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Travel as much as you can. A world of education is waiting beyond your immediate community. It will change who you are in incredible ways. I love this question. Some of the greatest lessons I learned from my parents have to do with relationships. My parents have been married 34 years and been together 38 years, but they were always very honest with me and my sister about the nature of marriage and relationships. They taught us that relationships are not like they are portrayed in movies, that require commitment and work but that makes it even more worth it.
Also, they taught us as women to not look as ourselves as a princess and expect to be taken care of by our partners. But to be an active participant in our relationships. My parents are still in love with each other because they are honest with themselves and accept each other as they are with their own quirks and faults. Being able to differentiate between fantasy what movies portray about love and reality prepares us to better deal with the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship.
This lesson extends to other parts of my life too, like my career. It all comes down to being brutally honest with one self and working with the tools that life gives you to make the best of it. I have a memory of my mom watching a VHS on being an effective manager while working out on her Jazzercise step in our living room. She had been having some challenges with her team at work, so instead of complaining, she looked to how she could improve.
When she started assistant coaching my soccer team when I was in middle school, she took out books on coaching soccer from the library. When my brother joined the wrestling team, she took out five books on wrestling. And that you should always strive to be better. I decide to pursue. He taught me to always leave things better than how you found them. Great lesson! He taught me how to approach things methodically, and think things through before starting a project. That is a great question. The most important thing that they taught me was to spend time with my children.
No matter how long and hard their days were, both parents always did things with us to show that they cared. We never had a lot of possessions, but my brother and I knew that we were loved. Such a great question. Helps refreshing all memories of parents back in the past. Things I learnt from:. Woke up early morning, start working for whole day and having an enjoyable evening by just watching her TV show.
It might be boring for some people, but I see this as a value where my mom can turn all this into a habit, a system that even though there are so much overloads work to do, but she can always finish them in time. My folks were both pretty cold people with a lot of insecurities. They told me I could do anything I wanted in my life with my intelligence, but discouraged my forays into music or art. I think they wanted me to grow up to write the Great American Novel and actively discouraged anything they saw as distracting me from that, but would never say so.
This will also sound odd, but one of the best things I learned was something my father got from studying under Reinhold Niebuhr: that institutions governments, companies, churches are incapable of acting as moral agents in the way that individuals can, because while people can individually decide to sacrifice themselves or act against their own self-interest altruistically or to benefit others, institutions are all programmed primarily to perpetuate themselves.
So for instance, when the Catholic Church was shown to have protected priests who were raping children, this was shocking, but not surprising: the Church was primarily invested in perpetuating itself, rather than in its ostensible purpose, to save souls, or even protecting its most innocent parishioners. This helps me to see power dynamics in terms of what groups do, rather than judging mainly by the stories they tell about themselves.
From the same source, he also taught me that everything contains something of its opposite and the seeds of its own destruction, kind of the yin-yang principle. So luck, determination and cooperation — as well as a strong faith — can make the difference between survival and succumbing. I appreciate having had the opportunity to live with both my mother and grandmother separately. My mom taught me the value of having fun and keeping a childlike spirit, and to be an unconventional woman in terms of building things with your hands, and being strong as she is an athlete.
My grandmother taught me the power of putting your mind to tasks and accomplishing them. Though this is still training I am undergoing, my grandmother is 76, president of her garden club, member of the art council, and several different committees and she is always creating things that influence many. Be it dances, shows, home tours, flower arrangements, or regularly updating her house into a magical, comfortable place out of a magazine, I appreciate her ability to transfer ideas of the mind into reality.
This attitude helped me prioritize when I was a broke student and when I returned to being a broke student after having an income for a few years.